Sunday, December 13, 2020

Bridging the Gap - Do People still do this?

I started a blog 11 years ago. It seemed appropriate as a single male attending BYU and I enjoyed posting pictures and elaborating on random thoughts. Ironically, my last post detailed the weekend I met Emily, my beautiful, passionate, and intelligent wife. Sadly, since our memorable meeting, we haven't effectively documented our lives. Although, I have returned to this blog a few times to use the Hurst buttermilk syrup recipe! 

Now, I want to share lessons about life for Owen. If others stumble upon this and find value in it, great. I am happier and more fulfilled when I am creating and producing. I have more clarity when I am able to process thoughts and emotions.  Please visit www.lessonsforowen.com to view more! 

I made a bit of an edit to this blog and the purpose for it. Before completely moving on to "Lessons for Owen," I want to quickly pay homage to "My Life," the Troy of yesteryear. 

original blog title and pic

After 10 years, I still like many of the same books and movies, but life has definitely changed! One thing that hasn't changed, is that I'll use this blog to process lessons of life. Now, it'll be primarily targeted to Owen, but I hope to share universally helpful and true principles. 

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Yellowstone and Idaho!

I went on a sweet roadtrip with my roommates and friends to Yellowstone! We arrived around 11PM and realized that all of the campgrounds were full. The hotel prices were outrageously expensive so eventually we decided to pull off to the side of the road and pitch our tent on the asphalt (Afriendly sign said we would be fined $500 if we slept on the grass). My roommate began blowing up his nice little air mattress while I jealously look on in envy. Next, there began to be 'tornado like' winds collapsing the tent on top of us! My roommate and I exploded in laughter because of the adventurous night we were experiencing. Then, it started raining on us. By this time it was about 1 or 2 AM. We attempted to put on the rain fly, but some of the straps were broken, which only covered half of the tent. It was memorable, to say the least!  
On top of a little mountain overlooking Yellowstone Lake. 
The Grand Prismatic Basin.
Something? cascades.
What's a Yellowstone trip without seeing Old Faithful?!
Brandon, Erin, Megan, and me! (Not Pictured: Eric)
This had to be at least 40 feet off the ground! Maybe 50, okay, maybe only 3 feet, but still...we acted pretty brave and proud of ourselves for balancing on this log!
After hanging out in Yellowstone for a day or so, we journeyed to Idaho Falls. There, we enjoyed the most amazing fireworks I have ever seen. We met Bryce Hurst and his family at a Jack in the Box! The Hurst family will go down in the Book of Life as the nicest family EVER! I got to eat the Ultimate Bacon Cheeseburger! Random tangential thought; this burger brought back tons of memories of meeting up with my dad in Payson, AZ every other weekend growing up as a kid! It is so greasy, big, delicious and unhealthy, but ultimately amazing!  That was the thought... Anyway, Bryce and Brandon (my roommate) knew each other from their mission.
So, obviously this picture didn't quite capture the quality of the firework show we saw. It is the best firework show known to man!
The Hurst family was extremely kind and hospitable! They let us stay at their home for a couple of days. They fed us steak and potatoes( of course), and pancakes with the most delicious buttermilk syrup. We also roasted mallows and made s'mores. "Wanna s'more? How can I have more of something, if I haven't had anything yet....You're killing me smalls!" Anyway, I felt obligated to randomly interject a Sandlot quote, just for the love of the game! They also let us ride their horses!
This was a fantastic road trip. I was able to make some great friends, see some cool sites, and thoroughly enjoy Independence Day weekend. I'll forever cherish my new Idaho friends! 

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Arizona Trip!

I was fortunate to enjoy a four day weekend away from work, so I made a trip home!

I loved that my car, whitetrash, made it home in record time. I liked being ticket free all weekend. I did not like being without AC.  

I loved driving into Snowflake! I liked that I devised a plan to surprise my mom. I did not like that she was absent for my surprise arrival.

I loved that my mom bought a big screen TV with satellite. I liked that I was able to watch some world cup games on it. I don't like that it is in Snowflake and I am in Provo.

I loved eating at Golden Canyon and Bahama Bucks in Mesa. I liked the nostalgic memories accompanied with these places. I really did not like how hot it was.

I loved seeing my dad, Cindy, and Jeff in Flagstaff. I liked how we were able to meet on the freeway. I did not like that I drove 1000 in one day.

I loved playing racquetball with my dad and brother. I liked that I was able to hit the ball really hard, lots of times. I really did not like one of referees.

I loved seeing Hunter and Julie and their great kids in Snowflake. I really liked playing dodgeball on the trampoline! I did not like that our time together was soo short.

I loved that when my car broke down, we were able to make it to our very own corrals. I liked that Jeff was with me during our wait to have a rock throwing competition and to play frisbee. I did not like that whitetrash is on its last leg.

I loved being in AZ spending time with family, playing racquetball, and eating great food! I liked being away from Utah. I did not like coming home to a twin bed.

I can't wait for Travis to come home! I am excited to be in AZ in a month!

 



  

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Summer!




Summer is the best, especially when softball is incorporated! I have been playing on a city league team and a BYU intramural team. Basically, we are the Champions! 



It was tons of fun playing on a team with a lot of great players who understand the game. This was our final cheer for team Joshua Ricks. 



Intramural champions! Pretty much the best day of my life. Having two Intramural Champion t-shirts in my closet will make me happy for...FOREVER! 
 I decided to get a Gold's Gym membership. It has been a great investment. I have enjoyed playing racquetball with several new players and I like trying to get huge like Arnold. 

GIRLS

 I have enjoyed meeting new girls. It's been fun. Although, timing and external decisions that I cannot control, make things interesting. The fam is still supportive of my singleness, but continue to encourage me to figure out the whole "marriage" thing. My 'sibling' committed me to bring a girl home for our family reunion. Easy enough right?! Don't worry fam, one of these days I'll pull through! 

AZ

I miss my family! Fortunately, I get to see some of them in Flagstaff at a racquetball tournament. I get to play doubles with my dad and my brother in a tournament. We will win. It will be cool. Also, at the end of July my missionary bro Travis comes home! I miss the kid a ton and can't wait to see him. Then we will have a sweet family reunion. It will be cool too. 

That's it!  

     

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Life Update

I cannot believe that I have lived in Provo for over 4 years and that I graduated from college. I still may look like I am in high school and that these robes you see, could pass for Snowflake Lobo High school robes, but I kid you not...I actually graduated from college. Ok, so it was Recreation management...IT'S STILL A DEGREE! :) 



I was way happy to have both sets of parents come into town! My parents have always been extremely supportive. For that I will always be thankful! 


Jeremy is such a stud! He graduated from BYU Law School. He will be successful in life, 100% guaranteed. I am very lucky to have amazing siblings who are great examples for me to follow. I will sure miss Jeremy and his great family as they recently moved to Missouri. 


Since graduation, I upgraded my living situation! It's true, no more ghetto undergraduate housing! I will treat myself better as a grad student. I am living at The Crestwood Apartments. I have my own private room! 

I am working as an Account Creation Agent for Pinnacle Security and as a server for Chef's Table. I am enjoying the summer so far. Life is great! 


Tuesday, March 23, 2010

MPA Program

Great news! I got into BYU's MPA (Master's in Public Administration) program! This has provided a great relief and a solid direction on several doors that I can choose from as future career options.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Tender Mercies

There are tough times in life, but in those moments God gives tender mercies that provide strength to continue on, affirming that He is aware of us as his children("...the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance." 1 Nephi 2:20). 

Today, could have been a really tough day, but God blessed me with tender mercies that helped me carry on. As I arrived at work early to get some things done, the first thing I saw was this quote by President Hinckley saying, 
"It isn't as bad as you sometimes think it is. It all works out. Don't worry. I say that to myself every morning. It will all work out. If you do your best, it will all work out. Put your trust in God, and move forward with faith and confidence in the future. The Lord will not forsake us. He will not forsake us. If we will put our trust in Him, if we will pray to Him, if we will live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers." 

Also, a friend posted a link to a talk from Elder Busche that helped. 


"Embrace this day with an enthusiastic welcome, no matter how it looks… When you are physically sick, tired, or in despair, steer your thoughts away from yourself and direct them in gratitude and love, toward God.  In your life there have to be challenges.  They will either bring you closer to God and therefore make you stronger, or they can destroy you. But you make the decision of which road you take.  Put all frustrations, hurt feelings, and grumblings into the perspective of your eternal hope.  Light will flow into your soul.  Be grateful for every opportunity to serve. As you are learning this lesson right now, God wants to give you something better."  Elder F. Enzio Busche

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snAjZ8mfoYw

Finally, I am grateful for my job and the opportunity that is mine to serve. I was able to find happiness in brightening the lives of others, by thinking about their needs before my own. 



Sunday, February 28, 2010

Project to Understand Females

This weekend has been extremely educational! I have gained instruction that apparently I sorely needed. My Friday and Saturday date nights were spent with some of the most amazing women in my life! Consisting of, my wonderful mother, my awesome sister-in-law Kendra, my niece Summer, and my nephew Isaac and I were along for the ride.

What we did:

  1. Laundry
  2. Sewed clothes
  3. Ironed clothes
  4. Baked cookies
  5. Made two delicious dinners, one night it was breakfast for dinner!
  6. Watched a Hallmark movie, "Love's Unending Dream" watched the Olympics
  7. Played with Isaac
  8. Went to the park
  9. Fed Isaac
  10. Bathed Isaac
  11. Put Isaac to sleep (scripture time, "Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear," prayers, and then I got to sing him to sleep!
  12. Deep conversations
  13. Plenty of Girl talk. I decided Men are from earth, but women really are from Venus! jk
  14. Held Summer, lots and lots

I feel that I have become thoroughly domesticated! I still don't understand women, but I have gained some insight into the thoughts and emotions that go through females' minds. I realize mistakes that I have made in the past and am ready to move forward with a new approach!

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Sports Tribute



In the middle of a bleak and dreary winter I lay in the warmth of my bed fast asleep, when all of a sudden my enemy and friend continuously calls out to me, " errrrrrrr, errrrrrrrrr, errrrrrrrr, errrrrrrr." As I slowly come to my senses, I look at the cause of this alarming noise with hate and excitement, realizing that it is still pitch black outside. I  know that I have to go out into the freezing cold to scrape the snow and ice off of mom's car windshield. It is 5:30 AM, half awake-half asleep I attempt to dress myself fully for my seventh grade basketball practice. DEDICATION and SACRIFICE!

It happened just before my first varsity football game as a Junior with expectations to contribute as a receiver and kick returner. I was the kamikaze on the kickoff team. I ran down the field quickly and made a strong hit on the opposing kick returner, but felt an immense pain in my left hand, as it got sandwiched between two players, impacted with great force. We did another kickoff, and once again I ran down quickly to make another tackle. While running, I could feel and hear the bones in my hand cling together, knowing that my hand was broken; but that's football, and I wanted to make a tackle! As I made contact with the ballcarrier I tried to rap him up, but felt him slip out of my grip as I had no strength in my left hand. My season was basically over, although I still practiced with a cast for the love of the game. PAIN! 

Next season, in summer training, I would join many of my senior teammates to run stairs at the grand stands, like we had done in previous years. We woke up early in the morning to run sand hills and lift weights to be in the best shape possible. Puke hill! We had an awesome team! We dominated our opponents. I was able to contribute as a receiver, defensive back, and field goal kicker. From seventh grade until this point, we went undefeated. We were expected to be the State Champions. In our semi final game we unexpectedly lost the last 30 seconds of the fourth quarter. We were all devastated. It was over! Everything we had worked for, sweated, bled, and dreamt about was over! EMOTION, TEAM, WINNING, and LOSING. 

I love making an unbelievable catch in the outfield, turning a double play, striking out a batter, stepping into the batter's box, solidly connecting with a baseball for a base hit or a home run, stealing a base, throwing out an advancing runner, playing catch. BASEBALL.

I love dribbling between my legs or around my back, completing a fast break, making a three pointer, stealing the ball from an opponent, blocking a shot, making a fancy layup, buzzer beaters, half court shots, making a great pass, pick-in-roll, playing horse, best of ten, one-on-one, speed. BASKETBALL. 

I love catching a pass, making an interception, an open field tackle, recovering a fumble, kicking field goals, returning kicks, scoring a touchdown, a pick six, one handed catches, running a post and making a diving grab, working out with the team, tip drill, crack blocks, perfect spirals, onside kicks, the smell of the grass. FOOTBALL. 

I love acing an opponent with a drive serve, pinch shots, splat shots, kill shots, intense rallies, diving gets, playing with my dad and family, cut throat, watching an opponent dive and miss because it was a great shot, set ups off the back wall, trying to catch my breath just before serving for match point, RACQUETBALL. 

I could go on, but I'll spare the readers! 

I love the joy, pride, competition, sportsmanship, exercise, discipline, hard work, satisfaction, sweat, emotion, dedication, humorous trash talk, team camaraderie, athleticism, strategy, adrenaline, heart, persistence, road trips, championships. SPORTS.      


My motto has always been to keep swinging. Whether I was in a slump or feeling badly or having trouble off the field, the only thing to do was keep swinging.
-Hank Aaron, baseball
Only a man who knows what it is like to be defeated can reach down to the bottom of his soul and come up with the extra ounce of power it takes to win when the match is even.
-Mohammad Ali, boxing

A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals.
-Larry Bird, basketball
I miss all the shots I don't take.
-Wayne Gretzky, hockey
If you'll not settle for anything less than your best, you'll be amazed at what you can accomplish in your lives.
-Vince Lombardi, football

I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed. - Michael Jordan

 

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Seeing the End from the Beginning

When all else fails, turn to the Brethren! Unfortunately, it literally was after, "all else had failed." In the future I need to be quicker to seek out wisdom and guidance from inspired men of God who offer direction, allowing me to be comforted in words of truth.

I just realized that recently I have been "caught up" in the moment, causing me to lose perspective of the "Big Picture." Quotes from the brethren came to my mind as I thought about the consequences of my actions. It is great to have a knowledge that there are men called of God who have provided answers and insights to the issues of life. Here are some of the quotes that came to mind, that have helped me understand my situation better.

Elder Boyd K. Packer has stated, “Faith, to be faith, … must go beyond that for which there is confirming evidence … must go into the unknown … must walk to the edge of the light, and then a few steps into the darkness”

Elder Bednar expounds upon what Elder Packer mentioned. Saying that, "Assurance and hope make it possible for us to walk to the edge of the light and take a few steps into the darkness—expecting and trusting the light to move and illuminate the way. The combination of assurance and hope initiates action in the present.

Faith as the evidence of things not seen looks to the past and confirms our trust in God and our confidence in the truthfulness of things not seen. We stepped into the darkness with assurance and hope, and we received evidence and confirmation as the light in fact moved and provided the illumination we needed. The witness we obtained after the trial of our faith (see Ether 12:6) is evidence that enlarges and strengthens our assurance.

President Uchtdorf relates a story from his childhood to help illustrate this point. "When I was 11 years old, my family had to leave East Germany and begin a new life in West Germany overnight. Until my father could get back into his original profession as a government employee, my parents operated a small laundry business in our little town. I became the laundry delivery boy. To be able to do that effectively, I needed a bicycle to pull the heavy laundry cart. I had always dreamed of owning a nice, sleek, shiny, sporty red bicycle. But there had never been enough money to fulfill this dream. What I got instead was a heavy, ugly, black, sturdy workhorse of a bicycle. I delivered laundry on that bike before and after school for quite a few years. Most of the time, I was not overly excited about the bike, the cart, or my job. Sometimes the cart seemed so heavy and the work so tiring that I thought my lungs would burst, and I often had to stop to catch my breath. Nevertheless, I did my part because I knew we desperately needed the income as a family, and it was my way to contribute.

If I had only known back then what I learned many years later—if I had only been able to see the end from the beginning—I would have had a better appreciation of these experiences, and it would have made my job so much easier.

Many years later, when I was about to be drafted into the military, I decided to volunteer instead and join the Air Force to become a pilot. I loved flying and thought being a pilot would be my thing.

To be accepted for the program I had to pass a number of tests, including a strict physical exam. The doctors were slightly concerned by the results and did some additional medical tests. Then they announced, "You have scars on your lung which are an indication of a lung disease in your early teenage years, but obviously you are fine now." The doctors wondered what kind of treatment I had gone through to heal the disease. Until the day of that examination I had never known that I had any kind of lung disease. Then it became clear to me that my regular exercise in fresh air as a laundry boy had been a key factor in my healing from this illness. Without the extra effort of pedaling that heavy bicycle day in and day out, pulling the laundry cart up and down the streets of our town, I might never have become a jet fighter pilot and later a 747 airline captain.

We don't always know the details of our future. We do not know what lies ahead. We live in a time of uncertainty. We are surrounded by challenges on all sides. Occasionally discouragement may sneak into our day; frustration may invite itself into our thinking; doubt might enter about the value of our work. In these dark moments Satan whispers in our ears that we will never be able to succeed, that the price isn't worth the effort, and that our small part will never make a difference. He, the father of all lies, will try to prevent us from seeing the end from the beginning.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are taught by prophets, seers, and revelators of our day. Their prophetic view helps you to see the end from the beginning.

The temple is the binding link between generations, in this life and for eternity. The house of the Lord helps you to see the end from the beginning.

The Lord wants you, my young friends, to desire with all your heart to keep the church standards and live by the gospel truths found in the scriptures. God will bless you and open the eyes of your understanding so you can see the end from the beginning.

I promise you today that when you follow this pattern, the Lord will help you to make more out of your life than you ever can by yourself. He will help you always to see the end from the beginning!"

These quotes from Apostles of the Lord help me realize that it takes faith, patience, and righteously living the gospel in order to one day see the end from the beginning.It is not until after the trial of my faith that I can receive this witness.

It is important for me to be patient and faithful, realizing that all things are done in the wisdom of God, who knows all things. Also, that whatever happens, I gain experience, which shall be for my good.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

February =

........ I don't know!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

The 5000 Year Leap

I was at the library and a lady suggested that I should read The 5000 Year Leap, by Cleon Skousen. So I did! It was a great review of the principles our Founding Father's used to build this great nation. I recommend it to all people who value the freedoms that come with living in America.

Part of the Forward by Glenn Beck:

"There is no reason why our American way of life should be drowning in the same mistakes of those failed empires of the past, except for perhaps this one—as a culture we’ve stopped teaching and practicing the true principles of prosperity.

There are 28 great ideas that helped change our world, and the funny thing is, the American Founding Fathers hardly invented a single one of them. But they did find them, and brought them all together in a single document that has blessed this great nation and the entire world.

Promise me that you will write down the 28 ideas and teach them to your children, your neighbors, your friends—Now is the time to get out of our comfort zone.

You, me, all of us were born for this day, to stand responsible before God and future generations to keep this torch of freedom lit, and bear it away from ruin.

Remember the story of Joshua and the battle of Jericho. Remember how they marched around the city and all at once blew their horns and the walls went tumbling down? That’s us all over the place. We are the troops. The truth is our trumpet. And the walls are those same old tired ideas forced on us today—ideas that didn’t work at Jamestown, and certainly won’t work now.

The power is ours to blast our horns and shake those rotted scales off our freedoms, shake them to rubble and get our country back."

The Founder’s Basic Principles:

1. The Genius of Natural Law

2. A virtuous and Moral people

3. Virtuous and Moral Leaders

4. The Role of Religion

5. The Role of the Creator

6. All Men Are Created Equal

7. Equal Rights, Not Equal Things

8. Man’s Unalienable Rights

9. The Role of Revealed Law

10. Sovereignty of the People

11. Who Can Alter the Government?

12. Advantages of a Republic

13. Protection Against Human Frailty

14. Property Rights Essential to Liberty

15. Free-market Economics

16. The Separation of Powers

17. Checks and Balances

18. Importance of a Written Constitution

19. Limiting and Defining the Powers of Government

20. Majority Rule, Minority Rights

21. Strong Local Self-government

22. Government by Law, Not by Men

23. Importance of an Educated Electorate

24. Peace Through Strength

25. Avoid Entangling Alliances

26. Protecting the Role of the Family

27. Avoiding the Burden of Debt

28. The Founder’s Sense of Manifest Destiny